you know how lucky am i?

my mom said 'marry is like gambling, if your husband is a good boy thats mean you won'. when we were in relationship we didnt know how bad we are. in the first 3 months in our marriage life, we were arguing about the way to wash the dishes, about the was to hanging the clothes, about the way to cleaning the house, yep we were arguing about everything. my husband was living by him self for ages. no one distrub him, he could do whatever he likes. he was managing everything at home. but time is changing. we met, then he fallen in love with me and wanted to live together. later on we wanted to stay away from each other LOL. now our marriage life already passed one year and over. we keep live together and always sleep together. even we were arguing and screaming to each other, we never leave each other. i just realised how lucky am i. that my husband pretty gentle. he also working hard to pay the bills of two property. as you know that bills in Australia pretty expensive. he doesnt want me to give contribution to pay the bills. he always said 'use ur wages to pay ur own bills (to buy bag, shoes, clothes, etc)' LOL... he also paying for our food, our holiday, my parents holiday, etc. yep. he is a good boy. so i already won. but i always try to make him happy. everytime he come back home from work, the house already clean, the dinner ready, clothes from the drying line already pick up and get in to the wardrobe, i clean the bathroom 3 times a week, etc. even i working during the day but i never ever forget about house work. i am not demanding him too. i can look after my self, i have my own wages LOL. so he doesnt has to be worry about my pocket money. so we are lucky couple LOL.. as people in here said 'if your marriage life already passed one year, thats means you already passed the hardest year in marriage life' we proud that we still together over a year. i knew him for 4 years or more before we married. so we already over 5 years to knew each other. what the bloody old couple LOL