life too short for stupid things

i could not understand why some people crazy about party. i used to it because it was enjoyable for me. but later on, i getting older then realized that it was not the way to enjoy life. having party untill hang over, is absolutely wrong. there are a lot of things to enjoy. such as travelling, gardening, having quality time with partner in life, etc. having party and get drunk, is just wasting time and money. what does it feel when people get drunk? just feel relaxed, can not control their self because too relax,  their mood changed very dramatically happy. at the end, they have to be back to their real life, place where there are pressure, argue, fight and survive. i usually drink champagne one glass or just half. even for new year eve. last night, i drank half glass of champagne and my husband one glass. thats all. sometimes, we go to neighboor/friends. i just drink one shout of alcohol (no more than 20 percent) with chips. no music, having conversation. just 4 people. so close to each other. not even everyweek. i think one a month. because more close, more crash. i prefer having my quiet time with glass of water, look at the lavender and roses garden. they are so beautifull. look at the sky. it is amazing. looks like a picture.